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Monday, May 19, 2025

Bookmark Binge | Emma, Empathy, and Everything In Between

This spring’s roundup reveals just how varied my reading life has been lately. With only two book club picks among the mix, the rest are personal selections—chosen on a whim, sparked by a recommendation, or driven by pure curiosity. Below, I’m sharing what drew me in and how each book landed.






Wundersmith: The Calling of Morrigan Crow by Jessica Townsend (2018; 467 pages) // Fantasy🎧
I first heard of the Nevermoor series from Fiction Matters. It's a fun and whimsical middle grade novel with wonderful world-building. This one is the second in the series and it will scratch that Harry Potter itch! 

Trust by Hernan Diaz (2022; 402 pages) // Historical Fiction🎧
On lots of "best of" lists, plus heard it was great on audio. Impeccable writing and I love how it all unfolds...it won the Pulitzer for a reason!

All the Colors of the Dark by Chris Whitaker (2024; 597 pages) // Mystery+Thriller
This book was on my college roommate's favorites list for 2024, which was reason enough to pick this up. In short, I hated the content warnings component of this book (which are essential to the plot) but couldn't help but love the cast of characters and story-telling. It helped me realize how much I love closing a book on a chunky, character-driven saga. A hard one for me to recommend, yet so good!

Dinner for Vampires by Bethany Joy Lenz (2024; 303 pages) // Memoir🎧
I had seen this cover but wouldn't have picked it up if it weren't for my Seattle Book Club. While it was hard to hear all that happened to her, it was a quick listen and compelling story. The end made the book for me, when she compares being in a cult to being in an abusive relationship...and how it can happen to smart ambitious women. I love when a book helps me cultivate empathy—this one certainly did!

Memorial Days by Geraldine Brooks (2025; 224 pages) // Memoir
I'm always intrigued when a novelist publishes a nonfiction book (a la John Green...see below!) especially when it explores one of my niche topics: grief. This is the account of a wife remembering and mourning her husband's unexpected death, told in dual timelines—a favorite format of mine. It is lovely and sweet and reminds you of the "big things" in life. Similar to The Year of Magical Thinking by Joan Didion, but I preferred this one.

Emma by Jane Austen (1815; 474 pages) // Classic🎧
This book has been on my list for years now! A few things pushed me to finally pick it up: covered on Novel Pairings, earmarked it as a "massive" book to read in March-May, and a friend of mine also picked it up around the same time. And 2025 marks the 250th anniversary of Jane Austen's birth! It wasn't as propulsive as I had hoped, but I'm glad to know the storyline and to have encountered more of Austen's work. I liked Emma more than Sense & Sensibility, but less than Pride & Prejudice. This movie adaptation was very true to the book!

I loved The Anthropocene Reviewed, so when I saw John Green published another work of nonfiction, I was ready to dive in! I grabbed this off Seattle’s ‘Peak Picks’ shelf and finished this in a few sittings. I love how he touches on the beauty and pain in this world while also teaching you something. One of my favorite kinds of reading experiences. I thought this was wonderful! 

Tell Me Everything by Elizabeth Strout (2024; 326 pages) // Fiction🎧
I've enjoyed Strout's other fiction with its emphasis on everyday relationships, vivid descriptions, voicy characters, and peculiar plot points. So when I heard this novel combined her two most famous protagonists, Lucy Barton and Olive Kitteridge, I was intrigued! Overall though, this fell flat and I just wasn't as engaged with the story or happenings. There's a lot of dialogue and the legal case "mystery" didn't drive the story enough for me to care all that much. It was fine—I could have skipped this one.

I Who Have Never Known Men by Jacqueline Harpman (1985; 184pages) // Dystopia🎧
I had never even heard of this until my UT Book Club selected it for our spring read. I wanted to re-read the first pages again after I finished, which I think is a sign of a good book! Not a stand-out favorite, but the storytelling is unique and thought-provoking—it certainly touches on the age-old question: ‘What does it mean to be human?’ Excited to discuss this one with friends! 

The Measure by Nikki Erlick (2022; 353 pages) // Science Fiction🎧
Not quite sure where I first heard of this, but I'm a sucker for anything "thought-provoking" and was intrigued by the "what-if" premise. Appreciated the interconnected stories, but most of all, I loved that this one surprised me—both in the direction the story took and by surpassing my expectations! The audiobook is narrated by the all-star Julia Whelan <3

Always reading, 
- SJW

Wednesday, April 2, 2025

Bits & Pieces | February & March Collection

Watching | Vengeance
B.J. Novak's clever and satirical writing shines through in this West Texas mystery. I had never heard of this, but friends from UT recommended before heading to a girls' trip in Texas. 10/10!

Binging | Hacks
This show is a must-watch for anyone that enjoys stand-up and smart, fast-paced dialogue. The ensemble cast is fantastic, but the dynamic between Deborah Vance and Ava Daniels is the heart of the show. 

Reading | Everyone Who is Gone is Here by Jonathan Blitzer
My trip to Texas also prompted this pick for book club—we wanted a relevant nonfiction read, and this delivered. Blitzer details the history and political decisions that shaped the immigration crisis at the border, depicting multiple harrowing stories. The book is deeply informative without being prescriptive —mostly a documentation of how we got here. It gave me a clearer sense of the severity, longevity, and complexity of the issue. Not something I would have picked up on my own, but I’m glad I did!

Eating | Familyfriend
We went on a double date with our foodie friends A&L and had a glorious time at this Guamanian little hole in the wall—so unassuming that Mr. Fleece and I accidentally walked past it. The combination of delicious food, incredible service, and great conversation was the perfect remedy after a rough day of parenting. We learned that the staff has been friends since high school and all left their corporate jobs to help the owner open his restaurant. I loved their corn chowder and bulgogi dish the most (even more than their now famous burger)!

Listening | Waitress Soundtrack 
I listened to this soundtrack for the first time before seeing the play live at the 5th Avenue Theater. It's quirky and lovely and keeps growing on me. Makes me want to listen to more Sara Bareilles (she wrote the lyrics and music!) 

It only takes a taste when you know it's good,
- SJW

Sunday, February 2, 2025

Bits & Pieces | Winter 2025 Collection

Watching | Shirley 
In honor of the MLK holiday, I watched the biopic of Shirley Chisholm and her run for president in 1972. Her tenacity, integrity, and authenticity shine through. What a force! One of my favorite parts of the film is when you find out at the very end that Barbara Lee went on to become a member of the U.S. House of Representatives!! I also loved seeing the real Robert Gottlieb attend the movie premiere.

Reading | Life After Life by Kate Atkinson
A favorite of Sara's from FictionMatters, and then referenced in The Invisible Life of Addie LaRue, I decided to pick this up to round out my fantasy reads for January. As a "sliding door" novel, it was slightly confusing at points, but overall, I adored the descriptive writing, the setting and timeframe, and the ending! Great on audio. 

Listening | Beautiful Things by Benson Boone
I've loved this song when it pops up in my Spotify and just now learning he's a TikTok sensation. Go figure! I also like his songs Slow it DownSugar Sweet, and In the Stars.

Podcasting | Sold a Story
This investigative series delves into the reading gap in America, unpacking the science of reading—the meaning behind the term, its history, and the debate about how children are taught to read. As a mother of a kindergartner learning to read, I found it both fascinating and, at times, heartbreaking. I would highly recommend this to anyone interested in literacy and education.


These beautiful things that I've got,
- SJW

Friday, January 31, 2025

Year of the Dragon | Resolutions for 2025

Along with the books I want to read, I'm hoping 2025 is a year of patience. I want to be increasingly patient with myself and those around me, most notably, my children :) I also want to be more realistic about how long projects/tasks take and accept that I won't be able to complete everything all at once.  In general, I am coming into the new year exactly how I wanted to be feeling -- refeshed, positive, excited, and more settled into myself.

Word for the Year: Patience

Intention for the Year: Get Outdoors! We already spend a lot of time outside, but I want even more.

Goals for the Year:

1. Visit Mount Rainier National Park
2. Plant a vegetable garden
3. Get my bike working
4. Professional photo shoot for our family

We're planning very similar trips to the ones we took in 2023 -- Camano Island for spring break, Missouri farmhouse with family in June, and Connecticut in August! And I already have a girl's trip to Houston with college friends on the calendar for March. Hooray for time with family and friends. More of that, always!

Cheers to the year of the dragon,

-SJW

Thursday, January 2, 2025

Dog-earred Pages | 2025

Here's my updated monthly categories for the year and six titles I'm eyeing!

January: Fantasy 
February: Black Authors
March-May: Massive Books (400+ page)
June: LGBTQ
July-August: Historical Fiction
September: Specific Authors (i.e. Kristin Hannah, Ann Patchett, Lauren Groff, Margaret Atwood) 
October: Re-read Favorites
November: Nonfiction
December: Mood Reading

Removing distractions,
-SJW

Tuesday, December 31, 2024

My Year in Books | 2024

My reading life continues to delight and surprise me -- I love finding that perfect combination of engaging writing, compelling themes, and a well-paced story!  This year, I achieved my goal of tackling longer books like Fourth Wing, Babel, Demon Copperhead, Wellness, The Heart's Invisible Furies, Fellowship Point, and The Lincoln Highway; read several debut novels including Black Cake, The Silent Patient, In Memoriam, Lark at Night, and The Bluest Eye; and for better or worse, joined the bandwagon in reading buzzy new releases including James, The God of the Woods, The Wedding People, and Sandwich. I'm sharing fun stats, favorite reads, and what I've learned about choosing the right books for me.

Highlights: 
- 66 titles
- 68% female author 
- 30% nonfiction 
- 21% BIPOC author
- 17% 2024 releases
- 59% audiobooks
- 2 re-reads 
- Went to West Seattle's Silent Book Club with neighbors
- Continued my personalized monthly prompts, and attendance in multiple Book Clubs :) 
- Read 7/9 books on my initial reading list for the year

My 5-star ratings are based on how much I enjoyed the reading/listening experience, which is usually a direct correlation with how enthralled I was by the writing/language. How much the story and themes stick with me, and how enthusiastically I recommend to others helped narrow down my very top favorites below:

FAVORITE FICTION
#5 They're Going to Love You by Meg Howrey🎧
literary fiction // poignant, beautifully written 
#4 Snobs by Julian Fellowes🎧
comedy of manners // witty, will make you laugh
#3 The Great Believers by Rebecca Makkai🎧
historical fiction // AIDS epidemic, dual timelines
#2 Circe by Madeline Miller🎧
myth retelling // rich descriptions, feminist 
#1 The Frozen River by Ariel Lawhon🎧
mystery // midwife protagonist, diary entries 

FAVORITE NONFICTION
#5
The Color of Water: A Black Man's Tribute to His White Mother by James McBride🎧
memoir // racial identity, two perspectives
#4 Searching for Sunday: Loving, Leaving, and Finding the Church by Rachel Held Evans🎧
religious memoir // inviting, personal
#3 The Perfectionist's Guide to Losing Control by Katherine Morgan Schafler🎧
personal development // compassionate, helpful
#2 The Water is Wide by Pat Conroy🎧
biography memoir // vivid, classroom setting
#1 One in a Millennial: On Friendship, Feelings, Fangirls, and Fitting In by Kate Kennedy🎧
memoir in essays // for nostalgia lovers, wordy

ADDITIONAL FAVORITES
If We Were Villains by M.L. Rio🎧
cozy thriller // Shakespearean, atmospheric
Come and Get It by Kiley Reid🎧
satirical campus novel // tense, class dynamics
Big Friendship: How We Keep Each Other Close by Aminatou Sow and Ann Friedman🎧
nonfiction // friendship story of two women, uplifting
Hillbilly Elegy: A Memoir of a Family and Culture in Crisis by J.D. Vance🎧
memoir // starting point for conversation, relevant 


CHOOSING THE RIGHT BOOKS FOR ME
- I must love the immersive quality a great narrator can bring since all my favorites were audiobooks!
- I usually enjoy novels told in retrospect, or with dual timelines/multiple perspectives.
- Memoirs are great for reading ruts 
- I tend to like the character development that coincides with a higher page count. Just need to accept that I might not be able to fly through it as quickly. 
- My favorite novels of the year were all recommendations from friends, especially JS :)
- When selecting nonfiction, choose books based on what interests me most at the time. 
- I had a harder time with physical books this year...found myself falling asleep or stalling out. Needs to have short chapters, a page-turner storyline, or else I really have to want to finish it (for book club or personal bucket list). 
- Prioritize well-loved backlist titles. New releases aren't typically favorites unless I already know the author.

- SJW

Monday, December 30, 2024

Purposeful Playlist | 2024

Our family's approach to screentime and media consumption has continued to work for us and felt good this year! We had some clear favorites as detailed below but there's so much out there to consume and/or avoid -- I continue to welcome recommendations and suggestions!

Favorite Shows
We've established that each child gets to pick one show on the weekend days for a "triple-header" viewing. A bonus of having siblings :) 


Favorite Movies
They reallllly like their shows, so it's been harder to incorporate movies, but in the new year, I hope to re-establish Friday as movie night (even if we just start a movie that night and finish the rest on Saturday/Sunday). Over winter break, we've also been watching movies, which has been a fun treat! 

- The Paw Patrol Movie
- Winnie the Poo
- Elemental
- Thomas the Train
- Robin Hood
- Wall-E 
- Toy Story 

Silly Songs
-
Chicken in the Cornbread -- played when we eat cornbread
- Honey for the Bears -- played when we put honey in our oatmeal/yogurt
Hot Chocolate from The Polar Express -- played when we make hot cocoa
- We're Going on a Lion/Dinosaur/Monster/Shark/Ghost hunt -- NLW favorite 
- Touch the Sky, Owlette -- CCW favorite
- Turtle Train -- EDW favorite

Favorite Albums/Playlists
- PJ Masks
- Wee Sing for Halloween 
- Winter Party 
- Lion King Soundtrack
- Casper Babypants -- I plan to do an entire post featuring this musical magician!

Favorite Spotify Listens

Next year I'd love to incorporate more of the following: Wallace and Gromit, Roald Dahl audiobooks, Magic School Bus, and Disney movies. 

Surrounded by favorite characters,
- SJW